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One must not dwell in the past and move on. But sometimes the past is just so affecting to the present. But well I've got my affirmation and now, nothing matters most other than truth itself.

Look at living in the memoirs of the past as living in a template, you USED TO BE troubled over some matters and now you are still feeling that emotion from that problem. Its going to be that your life follow this set of template closely that you'll never break free from that bondage.

Some solutions that are often being given:

-talk to a friend about your problems, or rather, share.
-sit down and tell yourself it's all the past.
-get a new hobby (a healthy one) to distract you from it.
-change perspective of looking at things. (attitude)

For the above, its a common solution to this problem, but the problem lies here. How many of those people, are willing to act and seek those solution? Most of us are unwilling to do anything about yet we still kept complaining about our problems, and that includes me too. Often, I'll complain about my life being bored, yet I refuse to act upon this problem.

And a solution to this problem:

- Stop giving excuses!

Don't say no one is willing to share, because I am.
Don't say you can't break away from the past(problems).
Don't say there's no other hobby you can be involved in, because there's so many activities out there, including blading =).

For all things to change, tell yourself you must first change. Affect your environment and not let your environment affect you. Its just so saddening when you go to someone's blog and all day long they blog about how "sian" their life is. Everyday blog about "sian" of course its "sian". Change that, stop blogging about how "sian" you are, thing positively, find something to indulge in, and come back to share with people of your experiences and things you've learnt about.

At least this is what I think because I used to blog about how super duper bored my days are, and seriously, that really bores other people out too. I'm not trying to say we should put on a mask and lie. I'm saying, think positively because there are much more reasons to rejoice from than being bored and sad everyday. Being able to live and breathe and walk and hear and seeing our love ones is already a blessing isn't it? Be glad, because many people out there can't.

There is one reason why I blogged this post. Because I'm not going to let the dying-blog trend affect me! If you look at my blog links, 80% of the blogs there are DEAD, and I seriously meant dead. I know I know, busy right? In army, Internet down, going out everyday, nothing to blog, don't feel like blogging, blog also no one read. I'm not gonna let such excuses flood my head and stop me from blogging.

I'm sorry that it's been a long post, but I really do hope that I can be of help to you because for the above, I've been through it. And I'm always ready to lend a listening ear, that is, if you are willing to share with me of course. Take care and be blessed.




junyongK.

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Lets talk about ATTITUDE today.

Before that, lets get this clear that ATTITUDE differs from characteristic and personality. Your personality and your character do not affect your ATTITUDE.

The meaning of ATTITUDE is defined from the dictionary is:
manner, disposition, feeling, position, etc., with regard to a person or thing; tendency or orientation, esp. of the mind: a negative attitude; group attitudes.

It means that our ATTITUDE is actually the perspective, the reaction towards the things in life, be it the things we do, things we see and say, etc.. Your personality and character do not affect how you see a situation but it is your ATTITUDE that changes what you do.

If you have a positive ATTITUDE, everything would go smoothly in your eyes, because everything you'll see would be good stuffs. However, vice-versa, if your attitude is poor, the flow of life would seem against you. And people often mistaken or even blame their personality/character for their poor ATTITUDE. ATTITUDE is like the steering wheel of a vehicle while character is the wheel of the vehicle. In explaination, a good attitude drives a good character, the character would not be able to control the attitude. It is the steering wheel that steers the wheel.

Your ATTITUDE determines your ALTITUDE.

Is life against you now? What is your atittude towards it, do you blame God for the poor life, or blame yourself for your poor attitude that spoils everything. Understand that obstacles are tests from God given to you to help you learn. A mother does not carry her child forever. Mistakes help us learn.

Change your attitude before you change anything else.


Open your doors today..

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